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147电子沟通的代价：Fredrickson, B. (2013, March 23). Your phone vs. your heart. The New York Times, p. SR14.
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147 有可以一块儿做事的朋友： Buhrmester, D., & Furman, W. (1987). The development of compan-ionship and intimacy. Child Development, 58(4), 1101–1113.
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147 提供帮助的朋友……： George, T. P., & Hartmann, D. P. (1996). Friendship networks of unpopular, average, and popular children. Child Development, 67(5), 2301–2316.
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Hartup, W. W., & Stevens, N. (1997). Friendships and adaptation in the life course. Psychological Bulletin, 121(3), 355–370.
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147 鼓励、自信、忠诚： Berndt, T. J. (2002). Friendship quality and social development. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 11(1), 7–10.
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147 个人习惯与想法，快乐、痛苦，以及害怕受伤的感觉：Buhrmester, D., & Furman, W. (1987). The development of companionship and intimacy. Child Development, 58(4), 1101–1113.
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L’Abate, L. (2013). [Review of the book The science of intimate relationships by Garth Fletcher, Jeffry A. Simpson, Lorne Campbell, and Nikola C. Overall]. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 41(5), 456.
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还可参见Brehm, S. S. (1992). Intimate relationships: The McGraw-Hill series in social psychology (2nd ed.). New York, NY: McGraw-Hill.
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147 形成某种默契： Weingarten, K. (1991). The discourses of intimacy: Adding a social constru-ctionist and feminist view. Family Process, 30(3), 285–305.
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Wynne, L. C. (1984). The epigenesis of relational systems: A model for understanding family development. Family Process, 23(3), 297–318.
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147 采取很鲜明的立场：相近说法见 Lerner, H. G. (1989). The dance of intimacy: A woman’s guide to courageous acts of change in key relationships. New York, NY: Harper Paperbacks, p. 3.
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我第一次看到这种说法是在 Weingarten, K. (1991). The discourses of intimacy: Adding a social constructionist and feminist view. Family Process, 30(3), 285–305.
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147 其他文化也许会认为亲密感并不是必需的： Hatfield, E., & Rapson, R. I. (1993). Love, sex & intimacy: Their psychology, biology & history. New York, NY: HarperCollins.
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Hook, M. K., Gerstein, L. H., Detterich, L., & Gridley, B. (2003). How close are we? Measuring intimacy and examining gender differences. Journal of Counseling & Development, 81(4), 462–472.
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148 女性比男性更注重承诺与沟通的连续性：Luepnitz, D.A. (1988). The family interpreted: Feminist theory in clinical practice. New York, NY: Basic Books.
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148 男性比女性更看重性亲密与身体亲密： Ridley, J. (1993). Gender and couples: Do women and men seek different kinds of intimacy? Sexual and Marital Therapy 8(3), 243–253.
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148 亲密感、爱、热情并不总是会同时出现——它们属于完全不同的维度：Acker, M., & Davis, M. H. (1992). Intimacy, passion and commitment in adult romantic relationships: A test of the triangular theory of love. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 9(1), 21–50.
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Graham, J. M. (2011). Measuring love in romantic relationships: A meta-analysis. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 28(6), 748–771.
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Sternberg, R. J. (1986). A triangular theory of love. Psychological Review, 93(2), 119.
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148 正如我们的近亲黑猩猩那样： Hare, B., Call, J., & Tomasello, M. (2006). Chimpanzees deceive a human competitor by hiding. Cognition, 101(3), 495–514.
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McNally, L., & Jackson, A. L. (2013). Cooperation creates selection for tactical deception. Proceedings of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences, 280(1762).
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148 现代亲密感更多样：Amirmoayed, A. (2012). [Review of the book Intimacy and power: The dynamics of personal relationships in modern society by D. Layder]. Sociology, 46(3), 566–568.
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148 人类很少像现在那样重视亲密感：Wynne, L. C., & Wynne, A. R. (1986). The quest for intimacy. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 12(4), 383–394.
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148 人类历史最初的99% ：Bryson, B. (2010). At home: A short history of private life. New York, NY: Doubleday, p. 323.
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148 处于这种关系的人拥有更健康的体魄：Cohen, S., Frank, E., Doyle, W. J., Skoner, D. P., Rabin, B. S., & Gwaltney Jr., J. M., (1998). Types of stressors that increase susceptibility to the common cold in healthy adults. Health Psychology, 17(3), 214–223.
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