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150 美国有1/3的人开始网恋： Cacioppo, J. T., Cacioppo, S., Gonzaga, G. C., Ogburn, E. L., & VanderWeele, T. J. (2013). Marital satisfaction and break-ups differ across on-line and off-line meeting venues. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 110(25), 10135–10140.
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150 10年前，这个比例还很小：根据一项国家调查，20世纪八九十年代个人征婚交友中只有不到1%的美国人找到了合适的伴侣。Laumann, E. O., Gagnon, J. H., Michael, R. T., & Michaels, S. (1994). The social organization of sexuality: Sexual practices in the United States. Chicago, IL: University of Chicago Press.
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Simenauer, J., & Carroll, D. (1982). Singles: The new Americans. New York, NY: Simon & Schuster.
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150 这些约会中有一半： Cacioppo, J. T., Cacioppo, S., Gonzaga, G. C., Ogburn, E. L., & VanderWeele, T. J. (2013). Marital satisfaction and break-ups differ across on-line and off-line meeting venues. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 110(25), 10135–10140.
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150 1995年，还很少有婚姻是从网上开始： Randall, D., Hamilton, C., & Kerr, E. (2013, June 9). We just clicked: More and more couples are meeting online and marrying. The Independent.
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150 这一切开始于1999年到2000年间：Finkel, E. J., Eastwick, P. W., Karney, B. R., Reis, H. T., & Sprecher, S. (2012). Online dating: A critical analysis from the perspective of psychological science. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 13(1), 3–66.
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150 网上约会开始20年后：1960年之前出生的人在成年之前通常都不会接触到互联网，许多人一开始对它都是持怀疑的态度，因为互联网充斥着各种网络犯罪、身份盗窃，以及一些其他问题。当问题伴着新的不熟悉的媒介出现的时候，人们通常不会使用这种媒介。对于1990年以后出生的人，互联网已经如此根深蒂固，他们将其视为一种危险，一种对其他固有媒介的威胁。我们知道支票账户和信用卡都可能出现身份泄露，但它们已经存在了太长时间，我们已经接受了这种危险。如果出现新的替代媒介——正如贝宝在1998年所做的那样——转账的低消耗已经抵消了它既有的风险。但如果贝宝是你的第一次互联网体验，而且仅仅是其他已经存在的金融工具的替代的话，那么，它的应用壁垒更低。
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151 过度使用互联网、性格内向的人：Kraut, R., Patterson, M., Lundmark, V., Kiesler, S., Muko-phadhyay, T., & Scherlis, W. (1998). Internet paradox: A social technology that reduces social involvement and psychological well-being? American Psychologist, 53(9), 1017–1031.
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Stevens, S. B., & Morris, T. L. (2007). College dating and social anxiety: Using the Internet as a means of connecting to others. Cyberpsychology & Behavior, 10(5), 680–688.
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151 大学生的同情指数正在急剧下降：引自Gopnik, A. (2014, February 14). The information: How the internet gets inside us. The New Yorker, 123–128.
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他引自Turkle, S. (2011). Alone together: Why we expect more from technology and less from each other. New York, NY: Basic Books.
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151 更容易试着理解别人的感受：This is a direct quote from Turkle, S. (2011). Alone together: Why we expect more from technology and less from each other. New York, NY: Basic Books.
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151 渠道、沟通、配对、非同步：Finkel, E. J., Eastwick, P. W., Karney, B. R., Reis, H. T., & Sprecher, S. (2012). Online dating: A critical analysis from the perspective of psychological science. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 13(1), 3–66.
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151 我们以前接触的人：Kerckhoff, A. C. (1964). Patterns of homogamy and the field of eligibles. Social Forces, 42(3), 289–297.
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151 上百万份资料： Finkel, E. J., Eastwick, P. W., Karney, B. R., Reis, H. T., & Sprecher, S. (2012). Online dating: A critical analysis from the perspective of psychological science. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 13(1), 3–66.
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152 一致：Finkel, E. J., Eastwick, P. W., Karney, B. R., Reis, H. T., & Sprecher, S. (2012). Online dating: A critical analysis from the perspective of psychological science. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 13(1), 3–66.
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152 “产生基于评价的思维模式……” ：Finkel, E. J., Eastwick, P. W., Karney, B. R., Reis, H. T., & Sprecher, S. (2012). Online dating: A critical analysis from the perspective of psychological science. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 13(1), 3–66.
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152 认知与信息过载：Finkel, E. J., Eastwick, P. W., Karney, B. R., Reis, H. T., & Sprecher, S. (2012). Online dating: A critical analysis from the perspective of psychological science. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 13(1), 3–66.
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Wilson, T. D., & Schooler, J. W. (1991). Thinking too much: Introspection can reduce the quality of preferences and decisions. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 60(2), 181–192.
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Wu, P-L., & Chiou, W-B. (2009). More options lead to more searching and worse choices in finding partners for romantic relationships online: An experimental study. CyberPsychology, 12(3), 315–318.
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152 当认知资源有限时： Martin, L. L., Seta, J. J., & Crelia, R. A. (1990). Assimilation and contrast as a function of people’s willingness and ability to expend effort in forming an impression. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 59(1), 27–37.
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这其中还有一个数学原理：交友者都想要找到更好的伴侣，从而会阅读越来越多的偏离良好伴侣的资料，因此会降低选择的质量。决策超载出现，当他们变得越来越不那么有选择性时，他们的选项也越来越少。
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152 这是每位交友者的职责：Lydon, J. E. (2010). How to forego forbidden fruit: The regulation of attractive alternatives as a commitment mechanism. Social and Personality Psychology Compass, 4(8), 635–644.
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153 81%的人……造假：Toma, C. L., Hancock, J. T., & Ellison, N. B. (2008). Separating fact from fiction: An examination of deceptive self-presentation in online dating profiles. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 34(8), 1023–1036.
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153 交友者会将年纪少报10岁： Toma, C. L., Hancock, J. T., & Ellison, N. B. (2008). Separating fact from fiction: An examination of deceptive self-presentation in online dating profiles. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 34(8), 1023–1036.
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