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Wynne, L. C. (1984). The epigenesis of relational systems: A model for understanding family development. Family Process, 23(3), 297–318.
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147 采取很鲜明的立场：相近说法见 Lerner, H. G. (1989). The dance of intimacy: A woman’s guide to courageous acts of change in key relationships. New York, NY: Harper Paperbacks, p. 3.
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我第一次看到这种说法是在 Weingarten, K. (1991). The discourses of intimacy: Adding a social constructionist and feminist view. Family Process, 30(3), 285–305.
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147 其他文化也许会认为亲密感并不是必需的： Hatfield, E., & Rapson, R. I. (1993). Love, sex & intimacy: Their psychology, biology & history. New York, NY: HarperCollins.
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Hook, M. K., Gerstein, L. H., Detterich, L., & Gridley, B. (2003). How close are we? Measuring intimacy and examining gender differences. Journal of Counseling & Development, 81(4), 462–472.
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148 女性比男性更注重承诺与沟通的连续性：Luepnitz, D.A. (1988). The family interpreted: Feminist theory in clinical practice. New York, NY: Basic Books.
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148 男性比女性更看重性亲密与身体亲密： Ridley, J. (1993). Gender and couples: Do women and men seek different kinds of intimacy? Sexual and Marital Therapy 8(3), 243–253.
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148 亲密感、爱、热情并不总是会同时出现——它们属于完全不同的维度：Acker, M., & Davis, M. H. (1992). Intimacy, passion and commitment in adult romantic relationships: A test of the triangular theory of love. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 9(1), 21–50.
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Graham, J. M. (2011). Measuring love in romantic relationships: A meta-analysis. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 28(6), 748–771.
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Sternberg, R. J. (1986). A triangular theory of love. Psychological Review, 93(2), 119.
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148 正如我们的近亲黑猩猩那样： Hare, B., Call, J., & Tomasello, M. (2006). Chimpanzees deceive a human competitor by hiding. Cognition, 101(3), 495–514.
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McNally, L., & Jackson, A. L. (2013). Cooperation creates selection for tactical deception. Proceedings of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences, 280(1762).
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148 现代亲密感更多样：Amirmoayed, A. (2012). [Review of the book Intimacy and power: The dynamics of personal relationships in modern society by D. Layder]. Sociology, 46(3), 566–568.
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148 人类很少像现在那样重视亲密感：Wynne, L. C., & Wynne, A. R. (1986). The quest for intimacy. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 12(4), 383–394.
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148 人类历史最初的99% ：Bryson, B. (2010). At home: A short history of private life. New York, NY: Doubleday, p. 323.
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148 处于这种关系的人拥有更健康的体魄：Cohen, S., Frank, E., Doyle, W. J., Skoner, D. P., Rabin, B. S., & Gwaltney Jr., J. M., (1998). Types of stressors that increase susceptibility to the common cold in healthy adults. Health Psychology, 17(3), 214–223.
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Hampson, S. E., Goldberg, L. R., Vogt, T. M., & Dubanoski, J. P. (2006). Forty years on: Teachers’ assessments of children’s personality traits predict self-reported health behaviors and outcomes at midlife. Health Psychology, 25(1), 57–64.
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148 能够快速从疾病中恢复：Kiecolt-Glaser, J. K., Loving, T. J., Stowell, J. R., Malarkey, W. B., Lemeshow, S., Dickinson, S. L., & Glaser, R. (2005). Hostile marital interactions, proinflammatory cytokine production, and wound healing. Archives of General Psychiatry, 62(12), 1377–1384.
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149 也能够活得更长久： Gallo, L. C., Troxel, W. M., Matthews, K. A., & Kuller, L. H. (2003). Marital status and quality in middle-aged women: Associations with levels and trajectories of cardiovascular risk factors. Health Psychology, 22(5), 453–463.
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Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T. B., & Layton, J. B. (2010). Social relationships and mortality risk: A meta-nalytic review. PLoS Medicine, 7(7), e1000316.
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149 令人满意的亲密关系：Diener, E., & Seligman, M. E. P. (2002). Very happy people. Psycho-logical Science, 13(1), 81–84。在这一段中，我套用了一篇优秀的文章：Finkel, et al. Finkel, E. J., Eastwick, P. W., Karney, B. R., Reis, H. T., & Sprecher, S. (2012). Online dating: A critical analysis from the perspective of psychological science. Psycho-logical Science in the Public Interest, 13(1), 3–66.
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149 乐群的基本特征是合作： Knack, J. M., Jacquot, C., Jensen-Campbell, L. A., & Malcolm, K. T. (2013). Importance of having agreeable friends in adolescence (especially when you are not). Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 43(12), 2401–2413.
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149 并且在童年早期已经开始显现：Hampson, S. E., & Goldberg, L. R. (2006). A first large cohort study of personality trait stability over the 40 years between elementary school and midlife. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 91(4), 763–779.
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Rothbart, M. K., & Ahadi, S. A. (1994). Temperament and the development of personality. Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 103(1), 55–66.
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and, Shiner, R. L., Masten, A. S., & Roberts, J. M. (2003). Childhood personality foreshadows adult personality and life outcomes two decades later. Journal of Personality, 71(6), 1145–1170.
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